Friends & Travels

Traveling with friends or family members is enjoyable. It provides an opportunity to renew and strengthen the relationship. It’s also a good to discover the culture of other people. Learning is also facilitated by travels for it provides a veritable classroom which is even more interesting.

Am I Beautiful?

Am I beautiful?

What brought about this question was something that somebody said to me tonight. What actually happened was that she first asked me if I had any boyfriend before. Then this was followed by why I did not get married. What came next was something that gave me mixed reactions. I didn't know whether to laugh, be annoyed, feel insulted or just be amused.

I was advised by a fifteen year old girl to have a make-over in order to land a husband. LOL. As if I wanted one.

On Gloomy Weather

I have never been a fan of gloomy weather. It's something that we don't necessarily have a choice. It's either we have it or we don't. This past few days, the weather has been so gloomy and unpredictable. it brings to mind the belief that weather affects a person's mood.

I am not sure though if it's true or not. One thing that I am sure of is that when we have this kind of weather, I'd rather curl up in a bed with a good book. Then if rain truly comes, then the sound of the raindrops would lull me to sleep. Now that would even be better if that happens on a weekend when I do not have anything to do.

Actually, that's what I did yesterday.

Sweatshops

Sweatshops are fairly common in the past in almost all countries especially during the Industrial Revolution. People from the countryside flocked to the cities in search of a better life. The reality was contrary to their expectations. Workers are housed in places which can be described as befitting animals. Shelter and safe workplaces were in dire need. Various maladies, both physical and social, afflicted thousands of people. There were those who rose above the situation and attained a certain degree of success but the majority was left in a quagmire of misery. Organizations and unions were formed to address the social ills including the concerns of the workers.

Yes, this might have happened in the past century but these conditions can still be found in the Third World. In some cases, sweatshops also exist in some so-called developed countries. Workers are still exploited. They still work long hours with low pay in unhealthy workplaces. Discrimination and abuse are still prevalent. Thus, the continuing existence and the strengthening of labor unions.

The Challenges of Public Speaking

Speaking in public or in front of an audience is something scary for a large percentage of people. There have been several studies regarding this issue. This usually happens when the speaker is not very confident with his communication skills or with his mastery of the topic that he is supposed to deliver. For some, just the mere thought of having several pairs of eyes focused on them can already make them sweat. Being under public scrutiny can cause terror amongst ordinary people.

A healthy amount of tension or stress can help the individual become a better speaker but if it becomes a cause of him stuttering/stammering, then it becomes unhealthy. It really is difficult at first but once speaking in public has been done several times, it becomes easier.

Confidence is one factor which can greatly affect its outcome. Overcome fear and nervousness. In speaking before the audience, look for a friendly face and imagine that you are talking to him. Fully understand and master the topic. Do not just memorize because once a word or phrase is forgotten, one may not be able to go on. Smile. The audience will react positively to a smile.

On Job Interviews

Job interviews are considered as crucial stages in one’s career. It can mean rejection or acceptance. The best way to handle one is to be prepared. The individual can come up with probable questions and answers. This way he will not appear to be totally clueless.

One should search for information about the company since most of the time, the questions given during the interview will be related to the company and the position applied for.

During the interview proper, one should exude confidence. If possible, a portfolio with resume is brought together with a pen and paper just in case. Be punctual and stay calm. Smile.

In terms of probable questions, the interviewers may ask about the individual’s work history, personal capabilities and future plans. One should just be ready to answer almost any question with grace and wit.

Relationships

Relationships are quite complicated but still it has its advantages. I read somewhere that there are several factors which should be considered in relationships...maturity level, social standing, intellectual capacity, culture, etc. I agree that all of these are to be noted in getting into a relationship. Compatibility counts as well as the capacity to compliment each other. Though there is also another saying stating that opposites attract but I guess it depends largely on the people involved. I also believe that if you feel that relationship is worth fighting for, then, go on and do what you believe is best to nurture it.

Responsibilty

Everything that we do has a rippling effect. Sometimes we feel that we are free to do what we want without thinking of the consequences. We just want to vent whatever emotions we feel to the point that we become unaware of its effect on other people. This is most especially true if people look up to us. I worked with young people for quite a long time and this has made me very careful with my actions and words. I just felt that I have to be responsible for my actions and I believe it has stood me in good stead.

Joys Of Friendship

Time out with friends is an enjoyable way to spend our weekend. The joy that friendship brings is something to behold. In my case, I have done so many things and sometimes have to do without something just for the sake of friendship. Sometimes, the relationship might become rocky but if there is that measure of respect for each other then the friendship shall prevail. I am very glad that I have new and old friends whose presence enhanced my life and I also hope that in turn, I may have touched theirs also.

Traditional Or Modern

Each country has its own particular culture. Engagement and weddings are ceremonies which may be considered as a dynamic part of our culture. With the evolution of our society comes the constant change in its cultural make-up. Rites such as weddings are still being practiced but there is a marked preference nowadays for modern and less costly celebrations as opposed to having a traditional one. This choice, of course, manifests the economic difficulty of the common people.

Friendship

Friendship goes beyond boundaries and time. Most of our treasured are those whom we grew up with and those who shared our childhood. There is a different kind of relationship with them that transcends distance and age. When we are with them, we are reminded of the olden times when we were still carefree kids and throughout the difficult and oftentimes confusing adolescence. But wherever our friends may be, they are precious and valuable.

Whine? No! Do Something

Today's discussion was very interesting. Social problems have emerged left and right nowadays. Most of these problems have global as well as domestic effects. There are those who have taken a more proactive stance by looking for solutions while others are just contented with whining and complaining. Maybe if individuals as well as institutions/company's would evaluate their actions and the possible consequences of such, then risks and crisis can be preempted and avoided.